If you hold something tight 'til you kill it

And that's what flytraps do

'Cause if you just allow it to settle on your hand and fly where it wants

Like a bird or a butterfly

It could come back and settle and then swing to fly

So the hand needs to be an open hand

Gentle, open hand

It's about being free, but it's not about not being loving

Actually, but you kill the love if you, if you crush it

You can't do that to people

That's not love

That's possession