Dude, the hardest part is like, yo, like

Right now in my life this is what I need

And this is what will make me happy, right?

And I understand that you have your needs

And you have things that are gonna make you happy, right?

So if we can come together and we can talk about what we need

As individual human beings and then come together and be

Supportive of each others growth,

Be that home for each other

Like that's... that's great

You know

But the hard part is that transitional period

betweenTrying to live up to the expectations

Of who a person wants you to be, or who...

Who you want yourself to be to that person, you know?

It's like, okay, that's a lot of weight to carry, you know?

You have to, at some point, have these really brutally honest conversations that, you know...

Either free you both and allow you to grow the way you need to grow

Or deepens the connection between the both of you