Messy (Commentary)

I think messy, for me, I-I had the phrase "Movin' on is messy"

And I think that, especially for women

I remember when "Mama's Broken Heart" came out

And I remember thinking, "Wow, it's so true"

We're all supposed to just very much act like we have it all together

And we're unfazed in a lot of parts of life

And not just women, just people in general

And especially when you're going through relationships

You, if somebody breaks up, you want to appear unfazed

And I think that's just an unrealistic expectation

That you're not gonna have a rollercoaster ride

One day you may be fine, the next day you might not

Maybe you hang out with somebody that you shouldn't

Maybe you drink too much

Maybe you cry on your kitchen floor

And then maybe you don't think about 'em for a month

I think that my favorite line in that song

Uh, and what I would tell anybody is

Give yourself grace and it's okay